Q: " I've been meaning to try out this online dating thing for a while now but I still have some questions. Like what should I expect? Can I actually get dates (and maybe sex)? Also I have no clue on how to write out an online personal ad at all. Online dating sounds like a whole new world, is it worth taking the time and effort to pick it up? "
A: " The first thing about online
dating (or internet dating) is to know what to expect. How
women react to you depends on the persona that you present
on your personal ad . If you're going to portray
yourself as a hot stud in a singles only chat room you shouldn't
be surprised if you get approached by women who are only interested
in sex. If that's what you're looking for then you'd better
be prepared to deliver. Pictures and all. "
But online dating doesn't only have to be
about meeting women who are interested in your body. If you
enter the appropriate chat rooms and write a fairly honest
personal ad about yourself then you actually have a fairly
good chance of meeting someone compatible through internet
dating. If you're not sure where to go then it's usually
good to start off with groups or chat rooms that have the
same hobbies or preferences as you do .
As for your personal ads, feel free to embellish
on a few details but as much as possible you should be honest
to avoid problems during future dates. Also when you are reading
her singles ad, do remember that this works both ways and
she might not actually be as fantastic as she sounds like.
Its a small weakness of online dating that you have to be
mindful of.
The best part about online dating is that
you'll be able to meet a lot of women at once. You will have
a lot of girls to choose from and a lot of dates to go on.
For those who are not familiar with online dating, it will
seem quite scary initially but the more you try it the easier
it becomes. If you're not sure what to do then just head to
a internet chat room and start chatting as if you normally
would. It is even better than chatting in real life because
you will be able to laugh of mistakes easier.
If you've met a girl or a woman through online dating who you think you're interested in, try chatting with her in private and then move on to emailing each other. The more often she emails you and the quicker her replies, the more interested she is in a date. Remember to email her promptly because women hate waiting.
If you do choose to go out on a date with a woman you met online, remember that she already has an impression of you so try to keep up that impression on your date. Also show her a new side of you that she wouldn't know about online to impress her and to keep her interested ! Online dating can be quite fun once you get the hang of it and I wish you the best of luck and loads of dates!!
