Q: " Not to say that I get rejected
very often or something, but when I do it seems like a slap
in the face and my entire night is ruined. I can't get another
girl to go out with me and my confidence is shot. I need to
get over this but I can't get it out of my mind! I think I
need help dealing with rejection. Either that or there has
to be a way to not ever get rejected right? "
A: "Ideally, that should never happen.
But dating women isn't always easy and perfect so it does.
Whatever you did to get rejected (whether you're having a
bad day or you used a bad pick up line) you should seriously
reconsider you approaches."
Nevertheless, getting rejected happens even
to those who play the dating game extremely well and are dating
tons of women. Heck in some cases I get rejected because I'm
not too bothered. I can see the signs, and I can tell that
she isn't interested but I'm lazy enough to push on. You never
know when the girl might suddenly change her mind right? However
when rejection does happen sometimes it surprises and you
have to learn to deal with it .
While dating women, the best ways of dealing
with rejection are:
To make her see that she rejecting you didn't bother you at all. Show her that you don't need HER company and that she just missed out on a chance to get to know you.
After she rejects you, say something nice like “It's been a pleasure talking to you anyway” like you mean it! This way you set yourself up as a nice guy and you stand out from all the other losers who slink away after tossing insults at her.
Remain cool and confident and in good humor! When she sees you having fun she'll realize how much she missed out and she might come over and approach you instead!
One of my best friends has an awesome attitude
when he gets rejected that I think we should all emulate.
He tells me that he never gets rejected, he just finds out
if that woman has good taste. Remember than even while you
ask a hot woman out on a date, you have values too and you
are worth something to someone else even if it doesn't happen
to be her.
Lastly, learn that rejection may actually
be a good thing and not a bad thing. The more you get rejected,
the better you get because you will learn something with every
rejection. You'll learn that dating women aren't always
worth your time. You'll learn what works and what doesn't
and you will get better at picking women up! If someone
rejects you just remind yourself that its all part of dating
women and you should not let just one woman or one rejection
get your down. She isn't worth it!
The night is still young and there are plenty of other women out there who would love your company so just ignore this one rejection, move on and enjoy the rest of your night!
